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Marriage can be said to be a reflection of society. There are a wide variety of customs regarding marriage. The most commonly known are love marriages, arranged marriages, dating or living together. Which one do you prefer and why? Discuss.
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Different Customs of Marriage An ancient centuries a marriage was a remarkable event ,which changes the course of the life and it was defined as a heavy chain that both persons carry ,but now the integrity of marriage is lost and it seems that young generations diverted the propose of a marriage.
In addition to that ,In world today, still you will associate some customs that you never heard or see before like a women paying some money to her husband for the propose of her marriage otherwise, it won’t be possible to marry a man while another places both married persons cover all the costs of their wedding and pay half and half .and this is seems that the atmosphere of a marriage is different.
Love Marriage. In recently years,Majority of people choose their spouse in respect of their liking and type and they define their marriage is one based on mutual affectionate ,respect and understanding between them.while majority of people believe all kinds of marriage based on all these concepts or principals.
Arrange Marriage Arrange marriage is originated from an ancient empires who used select a spouse to their son and daughter by considering class basis.Moreover religious leaders used to play in a big role for uniting and matching the couples in arrange marriage .Though this customs were used to previous centuries ,but still you can find some people who believe arrange marriage is most appropriate type of their marriage while others saying this is again will of the persons because it is not based on decision and understanding agreed between both persons.
Finally,Marriage is happiness and prosperous and it’s essential to choose someone to live with in your life and share sorrow and happiness of the life and don’t forget that life is a short .
Marriage is essential relationship created by two people to enhance their well-being as couples. Virtually everyone dreamed to grow up, get married and have children. As this is customary done, it pond the couple’s maturity to the public. In the centuries this marriage was highly respected but now the economic hardship has blended it taste. Marriage has range of customs. Some of the most popularly once are dating marriages or living together, arranges marriages and love marriages. Even though all these customs are in practise but my favourite is love marriage. Remarkably, love marriage grows up affectionately and there is strong hold of intimacy because the lovers met and pronounce the proposal themselves without anybodies influence. In this marriage there is mutual understanding which bring their satisfaction to a higher level. Also the level of commitment is huge and family structure has stable strong hold to manage problem and their children always happy. On like the love marriage, the other marriages like arranged marriage which has been successful traditional and historical choice, is decide by two families. The family makes their favourite choice. It is good but they encounter a lot of problems which is related to less intimacy. Others are continues argument, bullying and lack of commitment which lead to less satisfaction. However dating and living together marriages are also good. They are similar like love marriages. Dating marriage is good but less affection, less contact and satisfaction unlike love marriages. In conclusion, all of them are quite better but my favourite is love marriage which has strong hold affection. l -
My preference is love marriage. The reason for that is you marry someone whom you know his personality and his back ground. Love is essential it is for two people who are committed to each other, who are willing to spend the rest of their life together. Although is not guarantee red that you will have everlasting marriage, at least you know what you are getting your self into. It is about your future, you need someone who has good nuture, caring, loving respectful and someone who is going to be a good example to your children. If you barely know that person it means there is no love. Above all it is about happiness. Arranged marriages are known to be traditional culture and customary and they have been successful to other people. It’s about two families approving that marriage. We are human beings we make mistakes. Sometimes we make wrong judgement if that happens that marriage is in a mess. May be the person is abusive and arrogant even beating you all the time you will wish that if you known the person before hand you wouldn’t marry that person. We hear stories about arranged marriages that some men treat their wives like slaves and they are cruel towards their wives. I wouldn’t like to be in that situation. Anywhere that is my opinion. The devil you know is better than the one you don’t.
Marriage is the first tread to stability in life, emotionally and physically. The most difficult phase for girls and boys is marriage when they plan to assemble the smallest model of the society which is a family. Parting from parents to share somebody else’s sensation and emotion for whole the life is a harsh decision and hard stage. Some people laid the conformity as a main condition for selecting their spouse to match with their habits and customs. On the base of this fact, marriage needs some essential principles like knowing and understanding each other. In addition,marriage should be based on mercy, love and respectability. Rarely, the members of the family who carry love, morality disperse, there is always a strong relation to connect and join them together. Unfortunately,in some residual tribal cultures, love marriage is strongly denied; it is considered as a blot on their family, they treat girls as a vulnerable creature instead a human. They disown her if she dared to express on her love or choose her fate, because that means she brings a shame on her family. Parents pick out a partner for their daughter by forcing her to inevitable arranged marriage. They do that to maintain their customs and defence on their honour and reputation. I prefer the love marriage than arranged marriage or living together as a partnership, because they feel more independents, joyful and blessed. Beside that if they choose each other they can solve out their problems without imputing their family of forcing them to marry somebody who they did not love and knew him or her. Shilan Jalal
Nowadays in our society,people are no longer have respect for marriage. Many have turned marriage into business contracts.For instants,there was a young woman who got arrested for marrying a total stranger because of money.This suggests that we have lost the value of marriage,whether it is arranged or by choice. Marriage is supposed to the beginning of a happy family.In my opinion there is no family without marriage. Personally i prefer love marriage, because it is by choice.It takes commitment to make a marriage work.Although it is not definite that love marriage is going to be successful,at least if it does not work there will be no body to blame besides the married once.on the other hand, when an arranged marriage does not work out there's always going to be people pointing fingers at one another.
Nowadays in our society,people are no longer have respect for marriage. Many have turned marriage into business contracts.For instants,there was a young woman who got arrested for marrying a total stranger, because of money.This suggests that we have lost the value of marriage,whether it is arranged or by choice. Marriage is supposed to the beginning of a happy family.In my opinion there is no family without marriage. Personally i prefer love marriage, because it is by choice.It takes commitment to make a marriage work.Although it is not definite that love marriage is going to be successful,at least if it does not work there will be no body to blame besides the married once.on the other hand, when an arranged marriage does not work out there's always going to be people pointing fingers at one another.
(A company has announced that it wishes to build a large factory near your community) Sometimes a huge factory is opened by a company near residents area. On the on hand,factories are built in a city have some benefits.One of them is that people who live around a factory might be gained jobs much easier and do not pay for transports when gone to work.In addition time is saved by these employees. On the other hand, there are many problems consider to manage factories in or near citizens' communication.Firstly, main issue is about an air pollution ,which is caused by working the factories machines.For instance: smoke,toxic chemical substances ... and so on are pumped to an air all of them are contained Co2 and reducind amount of O2 in an air.Secondly, some researches shows these people live in polluted areas have much chance to gain health problem rather the other.Furthermore ,by taking off waste products to an outside of factories ., ti ould be cantained harmful substances and react with air.Also that is too bad for humans' breath. Subsequently, these places would be too busy and noisy becaused of factories employees' cars and naturally factories are opened 24 hours so at nights also machinces are worked and make much noisy especially for the factories' neighbours . In order to solve above affects of pollutions' factories , there are several different ways to adapt.One of ways is building factories outsides of cities and as far as many miles from communication. Moreover, by planting as much as trees around factories to decrease some harmfules of polluted air by providing O2 to their environment. In conclusion, it can be seen formed factories near peoples' areas creat many issues. I totally disagree with opening factories around comunication because they are too dangerous for human.
My preference is love marriages: love marriages are something very precious thing for a couple. Who wanted to get marriage with joy and happiness!!! The parents of both couple have to be agreed. This mean they have to make sure, they are the right one for each other before getting marriage. Living together: Living together might be a good thing, because they could know each other. As my opinion if it was me I will get through to the marriage before living together. Today lots of people are thinking of living together because there are just interesting in what they wanted to do. Once they have it there is no more future. Arranged marriages: Well arranged marriages, as I know it‘s for people who often need to get British paper or for people who already in need. So their go strength to the point to see someone, who already has British paper to get married. After when that person got all the papers, their get divorce. For me I think this might help that person but at conduction if the other person is a nicely person to help.
In my opinion marriage is an important step in our life, because it changes our future in some ways. I prefer love marriages because you are the responsible for your choice, that mean you can be with someone you really love and you dreamt to be part of your life, someone that lights up your world. Nowadays, some people are getting married without even known each other which culminate into separation in most part of time, whereas other people prefer to live together first to make sure they got on well together. What makes marriage works well is not the variety of customs regarding marriage is the way people manage it in terms of respect, comprehension and loyalty.
There are a vast variety of customs regarding marriage such as love marriage, arranged marriage or living together. The type of marriage rely mostly on culture and pattern of people lives.
In my point of view, marriage is an important step in our lives, because it changes our future in some ways. I prefer love marriages because you are the responsible for your choice, that means you can be with someone you really love and you dreamt of to be part of your life, someone that lights up your world.
Nowadays, some people are getting married without even known each other which most of the time culminates into separation. Whereas other people prefer to live together first to make sure they get on well together and then get married.
However, what makes a marriage be successful is not the variety of customs regarding marriage is the way people manage it in terms of respect, comprehension and loyalty.
In addition to that for advantage of it that the people who are getting married, might be fosse to be married in their traditional believes which may couse to occur some problem and misundertanding in their marriage,beause the couple are might not be happy and the idiea of being to spend the lives together. Also on the other hand, in these modern days the people like to celebrate with style like for instance, they want somethings different from the parents day when they got married and therefore,traditional marriage may be unsuitable for that people are getting married nowodays as they like to be married happily and enjoyble to get on with their life. For disadvantage of getting married is first of all you get to make family happy that you are however,showing them that you have a respect for your traditiona. for instance everyone has their own traditional believes and way to celebrate at their wedding/marriage like clothes food wise. so in the case the main reason of having a traditional marriage in that even thought it might not be modern celebration but still the couple might be delighted that they still keep traditional and be proud of it. in addition for a love marriage is a union of two individuals based upon mutual love neverthels, affection, commitment and attraction While the term has little discrete meaning in the western arranged marriage and forsed marriade, in fact specially for Asia which have strong traditional arranged where the family of the woman, the man, or of both, arrange the marriage for the individuals marriage systems.
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My preference is love marriages: love marriages are something very precious thing for a couple. Who wanted to get marriage with joy and happiness!!! The parents of both couple have to be agreed. This mean they have to make sure, they are the right one for each other before getting marriage. Living together: Living together might be a good thing, because they could know each other. As my opinion if it was me I will get through to the marriage before living together. Today lots of people are thinking of living together because there are just interesting in what they wanted to do. Once they have it there is no more future. Arranged marriages: Well arranged marriages, as I know it‘s for people who often need to get British paper or for people who already in need. So their go strength to the point to see someone, who already has British paper to get married. After when that person got all the papers, their get divorce. For me I think this might help that person but at conduction if the other person is a nicely person to help.
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17 comments:
Different Customs of Marriage
An ancient centuries a marriage was a remarkable event ,which changes the course of the life and it was defined as a heavy chain that both persons carry ,but now the integrity of marriage is lost and it seems that young generations diverted the propose of a marriage.
In addition to that ,In world today, still you will associate some customs that you never heard or see before like a women paying some money to her husband for the propose of her marriage otherwise, it won’t be possible to marry a man while another places both married persons cover all the costs of their wedding and pay half and half .and this is seems that the atmosphere of a marriage is different.
Love Marriage.
In recently years,Majority of people choose their spouse in respect of their liking and type and they define their marriage is one based on mutual affectionate ,respect and understanding between them.while majority of people believe all kinds of marriage based on all these concepts or principals.
Arrange Marriage
Arrange marriage is originated from an ancient empires who used select a spouse to their son and daughter by considering class basis.Moreover religious leaders used to play in a big role for uniting and matching the couples in arrange marriage .Though this customs were used to previous centuries ,but still you can find some people who believe arrange marriage is most appropriate type of their marriage while others saying this is again will of the persons because it is not based on decision and understanding agreed between both persons.
Finally,Marriage is happiness and prosperous and it’s essential to choose someone to live with in your life and share sorrow and happiness of the life and don’t forget that life is a short .
Esther N
Marriage is essential relationship created by two people to enhance their well-being as couples.
Virtually everyone dreamed to grow up, get married and have children. As this is customary done, it pond the couple’s maturity to the public. In the centuries this marriage was highly respected but now the economic hardship has blended it taste.
Marriage has range of customs. Some of the most popularly once are dating marriages or living together, arranges marriages and love marriages. Even though all these customs are in practise but my favourite is love marriage. Remarkably, love marriage grows up affectionately and there is strong hold of intimacy because the lovers met and pronounce the proposal themselves without anybodies influence. In this marriage there is mutual understanding which bring their satisfaction to a higher level. Also the level of commitment is huge and family structure has stable strong hold to manage problem and their children always happy.
On like the love marriage, the other marriages like arranged marriage which has been successful traditional and historical choice, is decide by two families. The family makes their favourite choice. It is good but they encounter a lot of problems which is related to less intimacy. Others are continues argument, bullying and lack of commitment which lead to less satisfaction.
However dating and living together marriages are also good. They are similar like love marriages. Dating marriage is good but less affection, less contact and satisfaction unlike love marriages. In conclusion, all of them are quite better but my favourite is love marriage which has strong hold affection.
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Love marriage and arranged marriages
My preference is love marriage. The reason for that is you marry someone whom you know his personality and his back ground. Love is essential it is for two people who are committed to each other, who are willing to spend the rest of their life together. Although is not guarantee red that you will have everlasting marriage, at least you know what you are getting your self into. It is about your future, you need someone who has good nuture, caring, loving respectful and someone who is going to be a good example to your children. If you barely know that person it means there is no love. Above all it is about happiness.
Arranged marriages are known to be traditional culture and customary and they have been successful to other people. It’s about two families approving that marriage. We are human beings we make mistakes. Sometimes we make wrong judgement if that happens that marriage is in a mess. May be the person is abusive and arrogant even beating you all the time you will wish that if you known the person before hand you wouldn’t marry that person. We hear stories about arranged marriages that some men treat their wives like slaves and they are cruel towards their wives. I wouldn’t like to be in that situation. Anywhere that is my opinion. The devil you know is better than the one you don’t.
Marriage is the first tread to stability in life, emotionally and physically. The most difficult phase for girls and boys is marriage when they plan to assemble the smallest model of the society which is a family. Parting from parents to share somebody else’s sensation and emotion for whole the life is a harsh decision and hard stage.
Some people laid the conformity as a main condition for selecting their spouse to match with their habits and customs. On the base of this fact, marriage needs some essential principles like knowing and understanding each other. In addition,marriage should be based on mercy, love and respectability. Rarely, the members of the family who carry love, morality disperse, there is always a strong relation to connect and join them together.
Unfortunately,in some residual tribal cultures, love marriage is strongly denied; it is considered as a blot on their family, they treat girls as a vulnerable creature instead a human. They disown her if she dared to express on her love or choose her fate, because that means she brings a shame on her family. Parents pick out a partner for their daughter by forcing her to inevitable arranged marriage. They do that to maintain their customs and defence on their honour and reputation.
I prefer the love marriage than arranged marriage or living together as a partnership, because they feel more independents, joyful and blessed. Beside that if they choose each other they can solve out their problems without imputing their family of forcing them to marry somebody who they did not love and knew him or her.
Shilan Jalal
Nowadays in our society,people are no longer have respect for marriage. Many have turned marriage into business contracts.For instants,there was a young woman who got arrested for marrying a total stranger because of money.This suggests that we have lost the value of marriage,whether it is arranged or by choice. Marriage is supposed to the beginning of a happy family.In my opinion there is no family without marriage. Personally i prefer love marriage, because it is by choice.It takes commitment to make a marriage work.Although it is not definite that love marriage is going to be successful,at least if it does not work there will be no body to blame besides the married once.on the other hand, when an arranged marriage does not work out there's always going to be people pointing fingers at one another.
Nowadays in our society,people are no longer have respect for marriage. Many have turned marriage into business contracts.For instants,there was a young woman who got arrested for marrying a total stranger, because of money.This suggests that we have lost the value of marriage,whether it is arranged or by choice. Marriage is supposed to the beginning of a happy family.In my opinion there is no family without marriage. Personally i prefer love marriage, because it is by choice.It takes commitment to make a marriage work.Although it is not definite that love marriage is going to be successful,at least if it does not work there will be no body to blame besides the married once.on the other hand, when an arranged marriage does not work out there's always going to be people pointing fingers at one another.
(A company has announced that it wishes to build a large factory near your community)
Sometimes a huge factory is opened by a company near residents area.
On the on hand,factories are built in a city have some benefits.One of them is that people who live around a factory might be gained jobs much easier and do not pay for transports when gone to work.In addition time is saved by these employees.
On the other hand, there are many problems consider to manage factories in or near citizens' communication.Firstly, main issue is about an air pollution ,which is caused by working the factories machines.For instance: smoke,toxic chemical substances ... and so on are pumped to an air all of them are contained Co2 and reducind amount of O2 in an air.Secondly, some researches shows these people live in polluted areas have much chance to gain health problem rather the other.Furthermore ,by taking off waste products to an outside of factories ., ti ould be cantained harmful substances and react with air.Also that is too bad for humans' breath.
Subsequently, these places would be too busy and noisy becaused of factories employees' cars and naturally factories are opened 24 hours so at nights also machinces are worked and make much noisy especially for the factories' neighbours .
In order to solve above affects of pollutions' factories , there are several different ways to adapt.One of ways is building factories outsides of cities and as far as many miles from communication. Moreover, by planting as much as trees around factories to decrease some harmfules of polluted air by providing O2 to their environment.
In conclusion, it can be seen formed factories near peoples' areas creat many issues. I totally disagree with opening factories around comunication because they are too dangerous for human.
My preference is love marriages: love marriages are something very precious thing for a couple. Who wanted to get marriage with joy and happiness!!! The parents of both couple have to be agreed. This mean they have to make sure, they are the right one for each other before getting marriage.
Living together:
Living together might be a good thing, because they could know each other. As my opinion if it was me I will get through to the marriage before living together. Today lots of people are thinking of living together because there are just interesting in what they wanted to do. Once they have it there is no more future.
Arranged marriages:
Well arranged marriages, as I know it‘s for people who often need to get British paper or for people who already in need. So their go strength to the point to see someone, who already has British paper to get married. After when that person got all the papers, their get divorce. For me I think this might help that person but at conduction if the other person is a nicely person to help.
In my opinion marriage is an important step in our life, because it changes our future in some ways.
I prefer love marriages because you are the responsible for your choice, that mean you can be with someone you really love and you dreamt to be part of your life, someone that lights up your world.
Nowadays, some people are getting married without even known each other which culminate into separation in most part of time, whereas other people prefer to live together first to make sure they got on well together.
What makes marriage works well is not the variety of customs regarding marriage is the way people manage it in terms of respect, comprehension and loyalty.
There are a vast variety of customs regarding marriage such as love marriage, arranged marriage or living together. The type of marriage rely mostly on culture and pattern of people lives.
In my point of view, marriage is an important step in our lives, because it changes our future in some ways.
I prefer love marriages because you are the responsible for your choice, that means you can be with someone you really love and you dreamt of to be part of your life, someone that lights up your world.
Nowadays, some people are getting married without even known each other which most of the time culminates into separation. Whereas other people prefer to live together first to make sure they get on well together and then get married.
However, what makes a marriage be successful is not the variety of customs regarding marriage is the way people manage it in terms of respect, comprehension and loyalty.
In addition to that for advantage of it that the people who are getting married, might be fosse to be married in their traditional believes which may couse to occur some problem and misundertanding in their marriage,beause the couple are might not be happy and the idiea of being to spend the lives together.
Also on the other hand, in these modern days the people like to celebrate with style like for instance, they want somethings different from the parents day when they got married and therefore,traditional marriage may be unsuitable for that people are getting married nowodays as they like to be married happily and enjoyble to get on with their life.
For disadvantage of getting married is first of all you get to make family happy that you are however,showing them that you have a respect for your traditiona. for instance everyone has their own traditional believes and way to celebrate at their wedding/marriage like clothes food wise. so in the case the main reason of having a traditional marriage in that even thought it might not be modern celebration but still the couple might be delighted that they still keep traditional and be proud of it.
in addition for a love marriage is a union of two individuals based upon mutual love neverthels, affection, commitment and attraction While the term has little discrete meaning in the western arranged marriage and forsed marriade, in fact specially for Asia which have strong traditional arranged where the family of the woman, the man, or of both, arrange the marriage for the individuals
marriage systems.
My preference is love marriages: love marriages are something very precious thing for a couple. Who wanted to get marriage with joy and happiness!!! The parents of both couple have to be agreed. This mean they have to make sure, they are the right one for each other before getting marriage.
Living together:
Living together might be a good thing, because they could know each other. As my opinion if it was me I will get through to the marriage before living together. Today lots of people are thinking of living together because there are just interesting in what they wanted to do. Once they have it there is no more future.
Arranged marriages:
Well arranged marriages, as I know it‘s for people who often need to get British paper or for people who already in need. So their go strength to the point to see someone, who already has British paper to get married. After when that person got all the papers, their get divorce. For me I think this might help that person but at conduction if the other person is a nicely person to help.
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